I recently saw a post in a Mom’s Facebook group from a mom asking how other moms manage to get reading homework done. The comments were full of other stressed-out moms with the same struggle. It actually made me a bit sad. Reading “homework” is by far my favorite part of the day. I am by no means an expert, but I thought I’d share some ideas that keep reading homework enjoyable for my family:
1.)
Change your mindset! Reading is not a chore.
Reading is not something to rush to get done or something to check off a to-do
list. Instead, think of reading as something you GET to do. Kids pick up on
energy, so if you are looking forward to it and enjoying it, they will most
likely follow.
2.)
Use reading to relax! Are you or your child
frustrated or just having an annoying day? Take a “book break”. Dr. David
Lewis’ research revealed that reading as little as 6 minutes a day can reduce
stress by 60% by reducing your heart rate, easing muscle tension and altering
your state of mine. Literally and simply, reading relaxes you!
3.)
Routine, routine, routine. Get into a routine
that works for your child. I don’t like forcing or scrambling to get in some
reading time. Just like there are certain parts of the day that I do and don’t
want to read, the same goes for kids. My son and I prefer to read right before
bed (which is no surprise considering #2), so that’s what we do.
4.)
You don’t have to finish every book you start.
Just like we turn a movie off if it isn’t interesting or stop watching a TV
series if it is boring, you can stop reading a book that just isn’t keeping your
child interested. A child will be more likely to give different books a try if
they know they won’t be forced to finish it. It also helps to have a
conversation on why they don’t like it, so you can help with book selections
next time.
5.)
Don’t rush to get a book or chapter finished.
During reading time, it is o.k. to spend more time talking about the book’s
characters, settings, predictions, etc., than reading it. Some books have cool
illustrations that need a little extra time to take in. Slow down and really
enjoy the book and all that it has to offer!
6.)
Always have a book with you. You never know when
you will get some unexpected time to read. Reading has helped during traffic
jams, waiting time before doctors or dentist appointments and at the airport!
7.)
Make reading fun!
a.
Use silly voices for each character.
b.
Alternate pages. If I’m sitting on the left
side, I read the left page, and my son reads the right page or vice versa.
c.
“Would you rather” questions always keep us
laughing during books. (E.g., “Would you rather have Captain Underpants or
Amelia Bedelia as your best friend? I am Team Amelia Bedelia in case anyone
cares.)
d.
Incorporate different locations every so often. Read
at park, along the River Walk, in a fort you make, at a soda shop, etc.
e.
Ambiance is everything. Try reading a mystery or
spooky book in the dark with a flashlight. Build a fort to read inside of. Get
a giant fluffy blanket and some hot chocolate to read with.
f.
Utilize libraries. Ammon and Idaho Falls have
great libraries. Kids love getting to pick out as many books as they want and
can hold. The board games, 3D printer, table toys, art supplies and picking
movies to rent also makes it fun for kids. While there, find a cozy spot and
read for a bit in between other activities.
g.
Text! Reading a text is reading, so engage via
text for awhile.
h.
Browse different stores online! Reading product
descriptions is still reading. My son’s personal favorite right now is reading
about different Lego Sets.
i.
Try a real newspaper. This is not a joke. Kids
feel like you’ve taken them back in time when you pull out a newspaper. It is
even better if you have a newspaper from 10+ years ago. This one is fun for
elementary through high school aged kids.
Please comment on this blog with your tips and tricks! I’d
love to hear what others enjoy about reading and ways you keep it fun!
Michelle Brown